Are you wanting more success with women and wondering how you can make it happen? Following in this article are some simple but effective strategies that you can start using straight away.

The plan for the way to make a girl really like you

Don’t be a dork, lol. What do I mean by that? Well don’t be one of those pussy boys who lets attractive girls walk all over them. Sure you want to be respectful but you don’t need to be a wussy, contrary to popular belief, pandering and sucking up to the apple of your eye and constantly telling them how lovely they are, buying them flowers and gifts actually makes you look like a WEAK pussy. If you’re looking to determine how to make a girl fall in love with you with you then you might be amazed to learn that it can actually turn girls off and make them believe less of you, there’s certainly something to be said for the ‘treat em mean, keep em keen’ way of thinking, to a certain degree anyhow.

The next tip is always to listen well when a girl is talking to you, they love to talk, and often will talk endlessly about themselves, this is cool and don’t interrupt them, let them talk to their hearts content and they will naturally begin to like you. Give her your full attention as well, girls don’t want to see you looking out into space or at other girls if they are talking to you, focus only on her and you will do well.

Getting a girl to like you can easily be done by using some NLP techniques in rapport building. We all go through the same process, we like people that are like us, it’s hard wired into our brains. One of the things you can do to build rapport subtlety is to use similar body language gestures that she uses. Perhaps as she is talking she has her hands or legs in a certain position, you can mimic this (but being subtle about it). Perhaps if she is excited and talking in such a way you can too, or the other end of the spectrum, if she’s talking slow and soft you can mimic this. I’m sure you get the drift, buy the key here is to copy her somewhat but without looking obvious which will take some time to practice.

One of the biggest pitfalls is getting into her friends category and its difficult to get out of there. You need to keep things on a romantic edge so that she does not just dismiss you as only ever being a friend. Use body language, words and actions to make her realise that you actually ‘fancy’ her and not just like her as a friend.

Do not make the mistake though of attempting to seduce her into bed, this probably won’t work and will leave you out in the cold forever. The proper way to get a girl into your bed, is to get her to invite you!